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NDR 2016: Singapore’s relations with Malaysia and Indonesia 'sensitive, complex', but good on the whole

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Relations with both countries are good, but there will be differences from time to time, said the Prime Minister in his National Day Rally speech

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Controversial Malaysian rapper Namewee arrested

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PETALING JAYA – Controversial rapper Namewee has been arrested at KLIA after arriving home from overseas on Sunday.

The 33-year-old was detained at 3.30pm at the airport.

George Town OCPD Asst Comm Mior Faridalathrash Wahid said the rapper, whose real name is Wee Meng Chee, will be brought to Penang for further investigations.

He will be produced in court to be remanded tomorrow.

On Saturday, Namewee posted the official music video of Oh My God! On his Youtube channel.

He posted on Facebook, “OH MY GOD it’s here! Wishing everyone a hungry ghost festival 🙂 Jiu Yi Yi. PDRM sila tengok MV baru Namewee! (PDRM please see Namewee’s new music video!)

Earlier this month Penang police chief Comm Datuk Abdul Ghafar Rajab said Namewee’s arrest would facilitate the investigation into reports lodged against him over the video which features Penang’s floating mosque in Tanjung Bungah as a backdrop, among others.

Claiming that Namewee insulted Islam in his latest production, 20 non-governmental organisations lodged police reports against the entertainer who is no stranger to controversy, having gained notoriety for some provocative videos earlier.

The four-minute clip, directed and produced by Namewee, features a Taiwanese band called Nine-One-One and was shot in places of worship in Penang.

In a separate video, Namewee said he released the music video with the intention of promoting religious harmony.

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Briton named suspect with Australian in Bali murder

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DENPASAR – A British man has been named a suspect, along with an Australian woman, in the murder of an Indonesian policeman on the resort island of Bali, police said Sunday.

Forensic teams have identified the blood of the slain policeman in a hotel room occupied by the suspects, Sara Connor and David Taylor, police added.

Connor, a mother from New South Wales, was named a suspect on Saturday.

Traffic police officer Wayan Sudarsa’s body was found with wounds to the head and neck early Wednesday on Kuta beach, a popular tourist hangout in the south of the island.

Denpasar police chief Hadi Purnomo said forensic tests had matched blood found in the pair’s hotel room with the victim, as well as samples taken from the crime scene.

“There is evidence we have found that allows investigators to declare him a suspect,” said Purnomo of Taylor.

Police had also gathered shards of glass from a bottle found at the crime scene they believe may have been used in Sudarsa’s murder, Purnomo added.

Police formed a guard of honour Sunday at the funeral for the murdered officer before he was cremated in a Hindu ceremony.

Naming the pair as suspects is a formal step in the Indonesian legal system, which means detectives have enough evidence to consider filing charges.

The murder charge they could face carries a maximum penalty of 15 years, though they could also face lesser charges.

A manhunt was launched for the pair after Connor’s ATM card and driver’s license were found at the crime scene.

They were arrested at the Australian consulate Friday afternoon and taken to a police station in the Balinese capital, Denpasar.

Connor’s lawyer Erwin Siregar said the couple had drunk beer before going to the beach around 11pm on Tuesday, where there was “kissing”.

No drugs were involved, he added.

Purnomo said there were nine witnesses assisting with their investigation.

Police previously said witnesses had claimed they saw a man with dreadlocks – like Taylor – arguing with a police officer.

A man and woman matching their description were later spotted asking a motorcycle taxi to take them to a hotel but the driver refused as the man was covered in blood.

Bali, a pocket of Hinduism in Muslim-majority Indonesia, is a popular tourist destination known for its tropical climate and palm-fringed beaches.

Petty crime is common but murders are rare.

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Hundreds swelter in Hong Kong protests at perceived election meddling

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HONG KONG – Hundreds of protesters rallied on Sunday against Hong Kong’s disqualification of six candidates from legislative elections, the latest outpouring of anger at a perceived tightening grip on the city’s freedoms by China.

The former British colony was handed back to China in 1997 under an agreement that gave ultimate control to Communist Party rulers in Beijing while promising Hong Kong a high degree of autonomy.

But Beijing’s refusal to grant full democracy, which prompted widespread street protests in 2014, has triggered tension with growing calls for Hong Kong to split from China.

“Against the political filtering (of candidates), give us a fair election,” chanted the demonstrators in sweltering heat of 32 degree Celsius (90 degrees Fahrenheit).

Police estimates put the number of demonstrators at 760, while organizers said 1,300 took part.

The government took the controversial decision to invalidate six candidates’ nominations on the grounds that they could be advocating for Hong Kong independence, an idea anathema to Beijing. But only three of the six showed up on Sunday.

One of the barred candidates, Edward Leung, a figurehead of the “localist” movement putting the financial hub’s interests before those of Beijing, said he did not join because he was not invited, illustrating a growing split in the opposition camp.

Leung was barred from running despite declaring to the Electoral Affairs Commission that he did not promote Hong Kong independence.

“This split has been around for a long time,” said Benny Tai, an associate professor of law at the University of Hong Kong who joined Sunday’s protest and helped lead the 2014 protests that paralysed the main streets of Hong Kong for more than two months.

“There is an actual difference between the ideals of the localists and the democrats. Personally I think this is unnecessary and harmful to everybody, but this issue cannot be solved within a short time,” Tai said.

The organiser of Sunday’s march, Jimmy Sham, said the absentees might have had their own reasons for staying away.

“You can’t say this shows there is a split just because they did not show up for one event,” he said.

Among the disqualified candidates who did join the march, Alice Lai, of the pro-colonial days “Hong Kong-UK Reunification Campaign”, said electoral freedom concerned everybody.

“This is about protecting our election rights and our freedom of speech,” she said.

The government said in a statement its officers had been handling election matters in line with the law “as well as the principle of impartiality with a view to ensuring that the election would be held in an open, fair and honest manner”.

The Legislative Council election is on Sept. 4.

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MOH to form committee to study enhancements for ElderShield: PM Lee

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The Government hopes ElderShield will be able to cover more people and provide more protection in an affordable manner, says Prime Minister Lee.

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NDR 2016: MUIS, PERGAS to work together to make asatizah scheme mandatory

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The decade-old scheme, which is currently voluntary, recognises teachers and scholars who meet the minimum standards of qualification to preach and teach Islamic religious knowledge.

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Man who swallowed 40 knives had uncontrollable urge to eat them

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Ever had a huge craving for food that you just had to eat it all the time?

Well, a 42-year-old man in India developed a taste for knives over a span of two months because he “liked the way it tasted”, reported RT.com.

Doctors in Amritsar were stunned to find 40 knives in the stomach of Mr Jarnail Singh who had complained of stomach pains.

The police head constable, according to Barcroft Media in the RT.com report, was admitted to a hospital in Gurdaspur where five doctors carried out the surgery.

“When we began diagnosis, we found the cause of the pain puzzling. We did an ultrasound, which revealed some solid mass in his stomach, shaped like cancer,” said Dr Jitinder Malhotra in a Stuff.co.nz report.

“The patient then told us he had an uncontrollable urge to eat knives. What is astonishing is that he had been eating knives since the past two months.”

Dr Malhotra said he had not witnessed something like this in his career as a doctor, reported Telegraph.co.uk.

The surgery took five hours and Mr Singh is reported to have recovered.

Maybe he needed to have more iron in his system when he developed this urge? We suggest eating spinach (or saag in Punjabi) next time, Mr Singh.

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Live updates: National Day Rally 2016

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Prime Minister Lee Hsien Loong’s rally speech at ITE College Central is expected to touch on the Elected Presidency system and the need for unity among Singaporeans in an uncertain and fast-changing world.

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Life as a child actor as demand grows for stage, TV and movies

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As demand grows for child actors for stage, television and movie productions, there is room to develop the industry further

Child actors are a small but flourishing breed in Singapore.

While there are no hard figures available, the modest demand for younger actors seems to be growing, says Ms Alison Tompkins, who co-founded Centre Stage School of the Arts in 1999 with her husband, Mr Peter Hodgson. It offers drama, dance, jazz and other classes for children and youth.

The couple were actors in the United Kingdom and then trained to be teachers.

Mr Hodgson says global productions heading to Singapore that require home-grown child actors as well as a flourishing theatre scene here help keep the demand for child actors going.

He adds that Centre Stage fields two or three e-mail queries every week to place or recommend child actors for Singapore and foreign productions.

In the acting scene here, child talent is cast in various ways. A Mediacorp spokesman says some of the ways include scouting via Mediacorp’s Singapore Media Academy’s speech and drama classes and Channel 8’s children’s singing competitions; casting calls on social media; and word-of-mouth recommendations by directors and producers.

Netflix period drama series Marco Polo searched for talent by approaching acting teachers, drama schools and talent agencies, as well as regular schools, with teachers inviting parents to ask their children if they wanted to audition.

Ms Milica Stankovic, casting director for Marco Polo’s second season, says: “You really have to search in every little pocket.”

Singaporean film director Jack Neo, whose movies often feature child actors, says he prefers to work with kids aged eight and older, as younger ones may not be able to follow instructions as well.

While there may be some truth to the show business cliche regarding the difficulty of working with children and animals, child actors can be held to the same high standards as their adult counterparts.

Mr Hodgson says that just like adult professionals, child actors might get offered roles regularly not only because of their talent, but also because of their discipline. “How you behave, what you do during the audition and on the job counts – for example, learning your lines. Reputation is everything.”

He suggests that the child actor scene could do with more professionalism. For example, he has seen child actors being paid “nothing, zero or their expenses”.

Almost all the industry insiders interviewed decline to reveal the range of earnings of a child actor, but Mr Hodgson says Centre Stage recommends $400 for a day’s work. This rate and other recommendations relating to hours worked and breaks will be considerations for a child actor agency that Centre Stage is hoping to launch.

Ms Tompkins says that children should be helped in areas that even adult professionals struggle with, for example, failing auditions.

“It’s difficult for adults to face rejection,” she says, adding that hundreds of child applicants can be rejected at the audition stage.

Centre Stage has organised auditions in Singapore for international productions that offered roles for Singapore child actors.

These include a West End production of The Sound Of Music in 2014, which attracted more than 400 children to audition, as well as the musical Annie, which runs from Wednesday. Six children from Singapore were picked to perform with Annie’s United States cast, out of 170 children who auditioned.

“We tell the children, it’s not that they weren’t good, but maybe they weren’t suited for the part, maybe they were simply the wrong height, for instance. It’s not something personal,” she says.

“This business is about picking yourself up. You may be suitable next time.”

SHY WHEN BOYS ASK FOR HER AUTOGRAPH

When Jaime Chew, 10, was practising her lines for the Netflix drama series Marco Polo, she asked the director: “What is a concubine?”

Jaime, a Primary 5 pupil at Damai Primary School, plays Princess Ling Ling, daughter of an imperial concubine, in the second season of Marco Polo, which premiered on streaming service Netflix on July 1.

Director Daniel Minahan deflected her query to her mother, Mrs Lu-min Chew, 44, who chaperoned her daughter during her three-week shoot last year at Johor’s Pinewood Iskandar Malaysia Studios.

Mrs Chew, a freelance music teacher and musician, explained that kings might have had “many wives” to signal their power.

On her part, Jaime says the relationship between the king and his concubine involves “having a cuddle in bed together”.

She has not seen the entirety of the show as “mummy fast-forwards all the yucky bits”.

Marco Polo, which has scenes of nudity and violence, is inspired by the eponymous Venetian explorer, who travelled to China and spent about 20 years in service to Mongol emperor Kublai Khan.

The production, which has reportedly cost at least US$90 million (S$121 million) so far, features other actors from Singapore, such as Oon Shu An, Los Angeles-based Chin Han, as well as Primary 1 pupil Max Kellady.

Jaime worked with veteran actresses such as Joan Chen and Michelle Yeoh, who gave her a muesli bar after a tiring day of filming. She also learnt to ride a horse and play the Chinese musical instrument pipa.

Her younger brother, Connor, six, has a non-speaking role in his acting debut playing Kaidu, the cousin of Kublai Khan, as a child.

The siblings had private dressing rooms and chauffeurs drove them between Singapore and Malaysia.

Jaime had auditioned for the role through an open casting call in the newspapers and the Marco Polo team cast Connor when he was visiting the set.

Although you could call her a professional now, Jaime’s first stab at acting did not pan out.

At age seven, she joined friends in auditioning for a part in the musical Annie. She received a bag of sweets after the audition, but cried when her mother told her it was because she did not get the role.

A fan of The Sound Of Music since she was a toddler, she auditioned two years ago to be in a West End stage production that included roles for Singapore talent.

She was picked and alternated playing the part of Gretl, the littlest von Trapp and her favourite character, with other child actors.

The show ran for four weeks at Marina Bay Sands’ MasterCard Theatres.

With this stage experience under her belt, she took another shot at Annie, the latest staging of which opens on Wednesday at Marina Bay Sands.

Jaime, who takes musical theatre and piano classes, is one of six children from Singapore playing orphans in the show.

She says a lot of opportunities have come her way after The Sound Of Music, such as roles in Mediacorp productions.

She is now better at handling rejection. “A few days after an audition, I’d think, what should I do to improve?” says Jaime, who will appear as a child reporter in Channel 5 variety series OK Chope!, which premieres in October.

Being a child actor means she has to manage her time efficiently, especially when missing school.

Instead of exploring the Marco Polo set depicting 13th-century China, she did homework in her hotel room during breaks.

During the run of The Sound Of Music, she attended school intermittently, in between rehearsals and performances. She often slept at close to midnight, compared with her usual bedtime of 9.30pm, and was allowed to go to school later the following day.

“Acting is fun, I want to do more of it. But I wish I could have more hours in a day,” she says.

Mrs Chew says she and her 49- year-old husband, who works in banking, support their daughter’s interest in part because she is able to juggle acting with her studies.

She adds: “We find these artistic avenues help balance the academic pressure of school.”

While acting has made Jaime more confident, she is less than enthused about being recognised.

“I’m more of a quiet person,” she says, hiding her face in her hands as she recounts how friends on the school bus once mentioned they had seen her in a print advertisement.

Boys have asked for her autograph and one even requested her phone number. She told him she does not have a mobile phone.

ACTING DURING THE SCHOOL HOLIDAYS

When Sanchala started acting in shows on Vasantham channel at the age of five, her mother had to read her lines aloud for her to memorise, as she could not read Tamil yet. Make-up artist Jaya Chitra Ramakrishnan, 36, initially felt that her daughter was too young to act when a screenwriter friend was looking for a child actor.

She eventually decided to let her elder child try something new.

Sanchala’s debut in the family drama Nijangal (Truth) won her the Best Child Artiste award at Pradhana Vizha, a biennial awards show that honours talent in the home- grown Indian entertainment scene.

Now 10 and a Primary 4 pupil at Kuo Chuan Presbyterian Primary School, Sanchala has been nominated in the same category for the upcoming Pradhana Vizha, which will be held at The Theatre at Mediacorp on Sept 17.

In the drama, Janani d/o Madhavan, she plays a girl who likes baking cupcakes and is being raised by her widowed father.

Being a child actor has made Sanchala independent. When she was six, Ms Chitra, who is married to a safety officer in the construction industry, gave birth to her son, Raghav. Her mother was too busy caring for her newborn brother to accompany her on her filming shoots.

Instead, assistant producers from Vasantham ferried Sanchala to and from home, and ensured she had her meals and rest breaks. This has been the practice ever since.

Sanchala’s fans range from young children to older women. They hug and kiss her, or ask to take photos.

There are challenges to her acting vocation. The family do not take long holidays, preferring short trips to Bintan or Langkawi, as filming takes place during the school holidays and sometimes on weekends.

Despite having to “sacrifice play” for her acting, Sanchala says: “There are no complaints because acting is my passion.”

‘ACTING MORE EXCITING THAN WHAT KIDS NORMALLY DO’

Ivan Lo Kai Jun, 12, stumbled upon acting and now wants to be a professional actor when he grows up.

When he was five, his mother, housewife Jessica Goh, took his elder sister, Alicia, now 15, to an audition.

Ms Goh, 49, says her daughter was a little shy at the time and she wanted to expose her to acting to boost her confidence.

Ivan tagged along for the audition and was spotted by a talent scout, who offered him a role in a Channel 8 drama, Bao Mu Xiao Jie Jie (Nanny Big Sister). Alicia did not get the part she auditioned for.

The siblings have since chalked up experience in television and commercials and sometimes share acting pointers with each other, though Ivan has the thicker resume.

Besides starring in television series with Singapore actors such as Paige Chua and Chen Liping, he has also appeared in home-grown movies, such as film-maker Jack Neo’s We Not Naughty (2012), in which he plays a troubled teen’s brother, and My Dog Dou Dou (2012), in which he portrays a schoolboy who takes home a stray dog which can predict winning 4-D lottery numbers.

Ivan, a Secondary 1 student at Edgefield Secondary School, was seen on TV earlier this year in an okto show called Ponteng School (playing truant).

He says: “I like to portray different roles. I set aside time for acting so that during the holidays, I can do something I like.”

While he often spends school holidays on his acting projects, he does his homework during breaks in shooting.

Besides taking advice from directors and actors, Ivan researches his roles like a professional. For example, for a Channel 8 production last year in which he plays someone with epilepsy, he watched YouTube videos of people with the condition.

His mother supervises his schoolwork and discusses acting offers with him, ensuring that the projects do not clash with examinations or school hours.

Ms Goh, whose husband, 51, is a production manager in the chemical manufacturing industry, says that, over the years, Ivan gets fewer roles through open casting calls and auditions. Instead, most offers come via recommendations by directors or producers.

Ivan says he gains new skills and experiences through acting. During filming of My Dog Dou Dou when he was about nine years old, he learnt to cycle and, in one scene, was hoisted by a wire and launched into the air.

“I find acting more exciting than what kids normally do,” he says.


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It Changed My Life: Her courage in fighting leukaemia and brain tumour inspires others

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A few months ago, Ms Kwan Yuling got her pocket picked while checking out some stalls on her way to a neighbourhood coffee shop in Serangoon North.

She was probably an easy target, the 34-year-old says with a sigh.

An operation to remove a brain tumour three years ago has affected her mobility, and she has to move around with a walking stick.

“Whoever did it probably took advantage of my condition. I didn’t realise it. But I lost my IC, ATM card and $170 in cash meant to settle my utilities bill,” she says in Mandarin.

It is a small fortune to Ms Kwan who earns just over $300 a month, working part-time in a social enterprise.

“My heart ached but I don’t hate the pickpocket. Everyone makes mistakes.

“Anyway, I can always earn the money back,” she says simply.

The absence of rancour is admirable for someone who has been dealt so many bad cards in life that griping should be her birthright.

Fair, bespectacled with hair cropped neat and short, Ms Kwan is sitting at the void deck of an HDB block in Serangoon North Avenue 1. Home, which she shares with her mother in a nearby block, she says shyly, is too messy to receive visitors.

She grew up in a one-room flat in Bukit Merah, the younger of two children of a contractor and a factory worker.

“I was five years old when I was diagnosed with leukaemia,” she says, referring to the cancer which usually starts in the bone marrow.

Although her memories of this period are hazy, she remembers frequent trips to the hospital where she was subjected to a whole host of treatments, from bone marrow extractions to radiation therapy.

Home was not exactly a happy haven for the former student of Serangoon Garden South Primary.

Her brother – older by a decade – was a ruffian and no stranger to boys’ homes.

Quarrels often erupted between her mother and her father, who did not believe in sparing the rod when she did not do well in her exams.

“He owed a lot of money to loan sharks and also had another family,” she says.

Things came to a head when Ms Kwan’s health woes landed her in hospital when she was 14.

“My mother was visiting me one day when the hospital served me my meal. She ate it instead, but choked on a piece of fish,” she says.

This apparently led to a stroke, and her mother spent a couple of years rehabilitating in hospital.

During this time, her father and brother left the home. “I’ve never seen them since,” she says.

No relatives stepped forward to help. “They looked down on us,” says Ms Kwan, who spent two years at the Institute of Technical Education in Geylang Serai studying English and basic electrical skills after completing her primary school education.

Social workers placed her in a girls’ home in Marymount, where she spent two years helping out in the kitchen.

“I didn’t have any friends. The other girls didn’t like to talk to me,” she says, adding that she went home to live with her mother after the latter was discharged from a rehabilitation hospital in Ang Mo Kio.

To get by, mother and daughter found work at McDonald’s in United Square, working alongside each other six hours a day for $3.50 an hour.

Her next gig, secured with the help of the girls’ home, paid more: $1,200 a month as a sales assistant at Metro department store, first at Marina Square and later at Paragon.

Friends were not easy to come by.

“I just did my own thing. I didn’t have time for friends,” she says quietly, trying to sound cavalier to mask her hurt. “After work, I’d just go home for dinner and watch TV.”

Jobs were not easy to keep either, probably because she has only primary school education and was self-conscious and shy.

However, she felt no bitterness.

“I wasn’t sad. If I lost a job, I just told myself I had to jia you (try harder in Mandarin).

“I’d look through the newspapers or approach sales promoters in shopping centres to find out if they needed sales assistants,” she says.

Over the next decade, she worked at a number of sales jobs, pushing everything from strollers to babies’ clothes to shoes.

Things took a bleak turn in 2013 when she was working as a shoe promoter in Hougang Mall.

She was on a ladder, getting a pair of shoes from a high shelf when she lost her balance and fell 2m, hitting the side of her head.

Unknown to her, two tumours had grown in her brain causing a build-up of fluids – probably a late effect of the radiation she had when she was a child.

This in turn affected her vision and caused frequent migraines, as well as mobility issues on the left side of her body. “My left arm and leg didn’t have any strength but I didn’t see the doctor,” she says.

Her fall saw her admitted to Tan Tock Seng Hospital (TTSH), where doctors inserted a tube from her brain to her stomach to drain the fluid build-up in her head.

The next month, she went through a seven-hour operation during which doctors took out the bigger of her two tumours, roughly the size of a golf ball.

She could not eat, drink, walk or talk for a couple of months after the procedure and had to be fed through an intravenous tube.

Ms Eileen Ho, a senior medical social worker with TTSH, says Ms Kwan was more concerned about her mother’s well-being than her own condition during this period.

“Because she was not able to work, she constantly requested social assistance to support her mother. She was afraid her mother would not be able to cope,” says Ms Ho.

Ms Kwan’s concern for her mother also propelled her to work hard at her rehabilitation, which took several months. “I told myself I had to recover. I wanted to be normal like everyone else,” she says.

Her fighting spirit impressed Ms Zhou Lifeng, a nurse clinician at the National Neuroscience Institute.

“Initially, she was a bit depressed but she was very obedient because she really wanted to recover. She is very strong. She thinks positively, doesn’t worry excessively and has a natural instinct to want to do well,” says Ms Zhou.

Gradually Ms Kwan regained her ability to eat, talk and walk.

However, she now speaks with a slight slur and has to move around with the aid of a walking stick.

When she was able to, Ms Kwan signed up for vocational training so that she could get a job and start earning her own keep again.

It took a while but with the help of SG Enable – an agency which helps people with disabilities – she landed a job as a kitchen assistant with social enterprise New Rasa Singapura last November.

Ms Josephine Ng, director of New Rasa Singapura, says that Ms Kwan was initially fearful and apprehensive about working again because of what she had gone through.

“But she was able to conquer her fear and she tries her best,” says Ms Ng. “She’s like a kid in many ways, always trying to gain approval and make friends.

“She likes giving the people here little presents and cards. They like having her around.”

Her positivity and determination so moved Ms Ho and Ms Zhou that both of them nominated her for this year’s Singapore Health Inspirational Patient Award.

Says Ms Ho: “We hope that her courage and positive attitude will help to encourage many.

“She has certainly encouraged us as health workers. She made us feel that our efforts to help and support her are worthwhile.”

Adds Ms Zhou: “You know, it’s been three years since her operation and rehabilitation.

“But, without fail, she sends us a ‘thank you’ card each year. She has so much gratitude and appreciation for people who have helped her.”

Ms Kwan says she draws a lot of comfort from a book about Nick Vujicic – a well-known author and motivational speaker born without limbs – given to her by a manager at SG Enable.

“Like him, I must try and try and I mustn’t give up. And when I fail, I must get up and try again,” she says.

Envy and self-pity are not guests she entertains.

She says: “I don’t feel jealous about other people. Everyone has challenges and problems.

“I do feel a bit sad about my health problems sometimes, but they’re beyond my control.”

She has no time for flights of fancy either. Asked if she dreams of getting married, she crinkles her nose.

“No one wants someone with a tongkat,” she says, using the Malay word for walking stick.

“No one will marry me lah, so I don’t even think about it. Anyway, I can take care of myself.”

She would rather dream of visiting Universal Studios Singapore in Sentosa. “I hear there are many cartoon characters there. I’ve seen the place on TV, but I’ve never been there,” she says. Her favourite TV programme, she lets on, is BENGpire, which recommends things to do and places to eat after dark.

Asked how she gets on with her mother, she quips: “She just sits at home and looks like a pretty vase.”

But, she adds quietly: “She’s already 66, so I pray for her health.”

What rattles her sometimes is the prospect of growing old friendless and penniless.

“I’ll try to work harder and make more friends,” says Ms Kwan, who has three confidantes with whom she shares her joys and woes.

“I just have to live life and take things one step at a time.”


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