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What’s Next for the Winners of ONE: DEFENDING HONOR?

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Singapore was lucky. On 11 November, they witnessed an epic main event between two feisty females in Angela Lee and Mei Yamaguchi, that saw Lee capture the inaugural ONE Women’s Atomweight World Championship. 

Now months later, another exciting battle unraveled inside the ONE Championship cage. This time, a world title changed hands and a legend fell.

There is something special about the lion city that just brings the best out of combat sports athletes. The honor and prestige of the ONE Championship cage extracts true warrior performances from those who step inside its steel confines.

A fighter must have tenacity, courage, and skill. These are the prerequisites of world beaters — the building blocks of champions. Yet hidden deep beneath the surface, past the bravado of even the most revered legends, lies the intrinsic quality of winners.

Yet even if fighters pour their heart and soul into their craft, as is the case with the fighters on this list, the hard truth is that in MMA, there are winners and then there are losers.

Let us take a look at what could be next for the winners of ONE: DEFENDING HONOR.

Eduard Folayang

The 32-year-old former school teacher Eduard Folayang delivered the finest performance of his career with a resounding victory over Japanese MMA veteran Shinya Aoki. Folayang withstood Aoki’s vaunted grappling game, which was on full showcase in the first round, and did just enough to last until he was able to shake off the jitters.

Folayang put his world-class wushu skills on display and brought the crowd up to their feet with a spectacular second-round comeback, capped off by a scintillating third-round finish.

Did anyone honestly see that coming? Aoki, who had not lost in five years and was riding a nine-fight winning streak heading into the matchup, was expected to be met with some resistance. But no one would dare bet against him.

Yet the signs were there. Folayang’s striking is the best it has ever been, as evidenced in wins over Tetsuya Yamada and Adrian Pang. Since his training stint in the United States, Folayang’s wrestling has also been absolutely on point, with spot on takedown and submission defense.

All these skills are exactly what was needed to dethrone a legend, and Eduard Folayang showed up.

A well-deserved break is in the cards for Folayang, and while he was able to realize a lifelong dream of becoming an MMA world champion, Team Lakay coach Mark Sangiao says the real work has only just begun.

Winning the title is one thing, defending it and making sure it stays around your waist is a whole different ball game.

The lay of the land at lightweight is a treacherous one, with worthy challengers Ariel Sexton and Lowen Tynanes looking for title shots as well. Folayang and Tynanes have unfinished business. Timofey Nastyukhin can also make a jump to lightweight to face Folayang again.

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Marat Gafurov

When Gafurov first lifted the title from Narantungalag Jadambaa last year, he was pushed to near exhaustion before applying his trademark finisher, the rear-naked choke, which came as a saving grace. Jadambaa had almost stopped Gafurov, but the Russian champion found a way to persevere and come away with the win.

Their rematch was highly-anticipated because of that classic first bout, which is what makes Gafurov’s fluid performance so intensely satisfying.

Gafurov maneuvered Jadambaa all across the cage with ease. The Mongolian, known for his tremendous strength and power, just could not deal with Gafurov’s slick Brazilian jiu-jitsu this time around.

The result was another submission finish for the ONE Featherweight World Champion, his sixth straight via RNC — a probably world record.

After the fight, Gafurov expressed his interest to face then-champion Shinya Aoki in a ONE Championship super fight of epic proportions, not knowing that Eduard Folayang would score the biggest upset of his career and dethrone the legendary Japanese warrior.

Gafurov could perhaps challenge Folayang for the ONE Lightweight World Championship, which would give him the opportunity to become a two-division champion. More importantly, however, there are a number of featherweights waiting in line for a title shot, and Gafurov will not run out of worthy challengers anytime soon.

There is Malaysia’s Ev Ting who has quietly put together an impressive run with a string of solid victories. Australia’s Martin Nguyen has improved considerably since the last time he fought Gafurov on short notice. Team Lakay’s Honorio Banario, a former ONE Featherweight World Champion, has also put together a nifty little run.

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Amir Khan

Evolve MMA’s Amir Khan just added a significant feather to his cap. He overcame a Brazilian jiu-jitsu champion in Vaughn Donayre to win in a terrific come-from-behind effort that drove the local Singaporean crowd into a frenzy.

Khan braved through the pain of having his arm and shoulder hyperextended in the wrong direction after getting caught in a very deep kimura by the Filipino Donayre. Fans from the stands screamed for Khan to tap, and he would be right to do so. Khan, a mere 22-years-old, has his whole career ahead of him.

And by all accounts, he appears to be an immensely talented young man. Great stand-up, very capable ground game. The last thing he needs is a torn ligament from something like maybe not tapping when he should have.

Khan proved a number of things with his amazing feat. He proved he could endure what was probably excruciating pain, he could come back from being nearly finished and get the finish himself, and that there is probably no situation wherein he would ever give up, at all.

More importantly, however, Khan proved he has the heart. And that’s something that just is not taught in any class.

Khan is in one of the deepest divisions in ONE Championship, but there are a number of high-level opponents for him to test his skills against, now that he has most likely graduated from challenging the gatekeepers.

There are the Philippines’ Eric and Edward Kelly, two brothers from Baguio City who are ready, willing, and able to give Khan a test. There is Malaysia’s Keanu Subba, and even Australia’s Rob Lisita who could test the youngster.

Whichever route he decides to take, Khan is ready for some big fights.

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Other Winners

Aside from the top three winners at last Friday night’s fights, there are other fighters who deserve honorable mentions.

Debuting Singaporean female strawweight Tiffany “Soul Crusher” Teo absolutely shined in her first promotional appearance. She completely dominated the fight from start to finish against a scrappy Egyptian fighter with a tendency to make fights as tough as possible. Teo improves her record to a perfect 4-0 and more importantly, she is now competing on the biggest stage of Asian MMA.

Kotetsu Boku got a victory in a way you would never want to get one — with your opponent suffering an injury. Timofey Nastyukhin was pushing him around with power shots until the Russian injured his leg. It would have been interesting to see how the fight could have progressed, but we will have to wait until Timofey heals and maybe he and Boku can go at it again.

Roger Huerta looked like he had fought his last fight just months ago, but he is back at it once more, impressing in a thorough victory over hard puncher Adrian Pang. Huerta showcased a dazzling array of his signature striking techniques and what fans got was a classic “El Matador” performance.

Overall, ONE: DEFENDING HONOR was a huge success. There were epic battles all throughout the card and fans certainly got their money’s worth. 

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Football: More than a game as China and Qatar meet in 'symbolic' clash

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DOHA – An Asian zone World Cup qualifier between the bottom two sides in Group A, who have won just one game in eight between them, may not seem a particularly noteworthy match.

But when China face Qatar in Kunming on Tuesday, it will also be a clash between arguably the most ambitious and certainly in their region biggest spending nations who, in the long-term, could both play a central role in shaping the sport’s future.

In the short-term both could deal an almost fatal blow to each other’s already very slim chances of reaching Russia 2018.

“It would be easy simply to dismiss the China Qatar game as a dead rubber or as a match between weaker nations on the periphery of world football,” said Professor Simon Chadwick, a British-based Asian football expert.

“However, these are two aspiring football nations, with major football ambitions.

“Both nations still hold out hope of making Russia 2018 and failure to do so would be an embarrassment and a setback in their desire to be considered as being among the world’s leading football nations.

“The game therefore has huge symbolic meaning.” It is the World Cup where both countries wish to make a mark on the global game.

Both have invested heavily to fuel their ambitions.

China, which aims to be a footballing superpower by 2050, has spent an estimated $1 billion developing its domestic game, says Chadwick.

It harbours hopes of hosting its own World Cup and, one day, winning football’s greatest prize.

Qatar is in the middle of transforming itself by splurging $200 billion-plus to host the 2022 tournament. The stadiums alone for that World Cup will cost some $10 billion.

Both countries’ ambition also represents a challenge to the established world football order, says China-based Cameron Wilson, founder of the Wild East Football website.

“I think it is clear the balance of power is shifting away from Europe, albeit slowly, and it’s no coincidence that money is a big part of that – neither Chinese nor Qatari football lacks serious financial backing,” Wilson told AFP.

But with ambition comes pressure, and neither nation is responding too well at the moment.

China have one point from their four qualifying games.

Their last home match – a 1-0 defeat by Syria in Xi’an – saw angry fans protest in the streets.

World Cup 2022 hosts Qatar are only slightly better off.

They have clawed three points from four matches, following a 1-0 victory in Doha last month against Syria.

But only the top two teams from the group qualify automatically for Russia.

Iran head the group with 10 points and Uzbekistan are second with nine. The third-placed team will have a play-off chance to get to Russia, the position currently held by South Korea with seven points.

Emphasising how desperate China and Qatar are to qualify for the 2018 tournament, both have sacked their coaches during the current round of qualifying.

Notably, China have appointed World Cup winning-coach Marcello Lippi on a reputed $20 million-a-year contract to revive hope in their almost moribund World Cup campaign.

Tuesday’s game will be his first big test in charge of “Team Dragon”.

Qatar turned back to popular former coach Jorge Fossati after losing their first two matches in this round of qualifying, despite storming through the last stage.

Lippi said he and the Chinese nation are hoping for a miracle.

Fossati is insistent that whatever happens in Kunming will not be decisive.

“We are very optimistic about the result of the game in China, but it is not a definitive game,” he said before his team flew out.

Last week China played a behind closed doors friendly in preparation for Tuesday’s match.

In contrast, Qatar beat Russia 2-1 in Doha in a match broadcast live on television.

“We wanted to help Marcello if he wanted to watch the game,” joked Fossati.

Defeat on Tuesday and the costs could be high.

For Qatar, it could mean the end of any hope of qualifying for their first World Cup before they host in 2022, and showing a sceptical footballing world they deserve to host the tournament.

China could pay a price off the pitch, says Chadwick, where continued football failure could unleash the “potential for political and socio-cultural fallout at home”.

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The Top 5 Highlights of ONE: DEFENDING HONOR

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ONE Championship stormed its way back to the Singapore Indoor Stadium on Friday Night, 11 November, with ONE: DEFENDING HONOR and the event did not disappoint.

The sold-out arena was sent into a frenzy when Eduard “Landslide” Folayang won via TKO against modern-day legend Shinya Aoki to claim the ONE Lightweight World Championship and end his incredible 1,316-day title reign.

Besides the unforgettable main event, there were other amazing feats during the night. This included Ahmed Mujtaba edging out fellow unbeaten prospect Benedict Ang, hometown heroine Tiffany Teo dominating Egypt’s Walaa Abbas in her promotional debut, and ONE Featherweight World Champion Marat Gafurov tapping out former champ Narantungalag Jadambaa and earning his sixth consecutive rear-naked choke victory in the process.

There were many extraordinary moments at ONE: DEFENDING HONOR, but here are the top five highlights of the night.

Highlight #1: Eduard Folayang Fulfills His Destiny

Eduard “Landslide” Folayang has finally achieved his dream. For the past five years, the three-time SEA Games Wushu gold medalist has made it his mission to win the ONE Lightweight World Championship, and in recent weeks, he has been telling everyone that he would defeat the legend Shinya Aoki. 

He said that his time was now. He was right.

The Filipino survived Aoki’s relentless submission wrestling and Brazilian jiu-jitsu attack in the first round, started firing off punches, kicks, and knees at the tail end of the second, and finally put him away with a knee and a barrage of punches to claim the belt. 

As Folayang celebrated inside the cage, confetti rained down from the rafters and the new champion posing with the gold was a sight to behold.

This title win means so much more than being the best lightweight fighter in Asian MMA. It is a testament to his spirit. The poverty-stricken son of illiterate parents fulfilled his destiny of being a world champion. That is the ultimate cinderella story, and he will serve as an inspiration and a beacon of hope for Filipino youth for ages to come.

Highlight #2: Michelle Nicolini Successfully Debuts and Puts the Strawweight Division on Notice

Michelle Nicolini, one of the best female Brazilian jiu-jitsu practitioners in the world, made her ONE debut and put on a clinic against Mona Samir. She absolutely controlled the Egyptian wrestling champion from the opening bell, took her back in a matter of seconds, and patiently bided her time before submitting her with the rear-naked choke.

Even though this was the first time Nicolini has stepped inside a cage in over two years, she looked, and felt, more comfortable than ever. She also made it clear last night that she wanted more fights and ultimately, the belt.

Though we are waiting for a possible ONE Women’s Strawweight World Championship, it is a good bet that Nicolini, an eight-time Brazilian jiu-jitsu world champion, will be in the inaugural title match.

Highlight #3: Amir Khan Overcomes Deep Kimura to Submit Vaughn Donayre

Amir Khan certainly made an impression last night. The Singaporean proved in front of a hometown crowd that his game is certainly evolving, thanks in part to the world-class trainers at Evolve MMA.

Though the local favorite nearly finished Vaughn “The Spawn” Donayre with a rear-naked choke in the first round, the Dubai-based lightweight came out refreshed in the second stanza, and after some back-and-forth grappling, got a favorable position, locked in a deep kimura and torqued the submission with all his might.

Somehow, Khan survived, and in the third round the Singaporean Muay Thai champion did the unthinkable — he beat the Pan Asian BJJ Champion at his own game and submitted him with a rear-naked choke. 

Highlight #4: Roger Huerta and Adrian Pang Put on a Show

Outside of the main event, perhaps the most exciting fight of the night was a lightweight showdown featuring Roger “El Matador” Huerta and Adrian “The Hunter” Pang.

These two warriors fearlessly exchanged strikes with one another all throughout the contest, with Huerta getting the better of the slugfest in the first two rounds and utilizing his wrestling more so in the second stanza. But a broken thumb sustained during the match would eventually slow him down, allowing the Aussie to become more dominant in the third round.

Huerta pulled away with a much-needed split decision victory, but even though both were tired, neither of these two backed down and they kept a lively pace going until the very end. It was non-stop fireworks and everyone loves that, especially ONE fans.

Highlight #5: Niko Soe’s Beautiful Armbar

The long rivalry of Singapore versus Malaysia raged on at ONE: DEFENDING HONOR, and the home nation got the win as up-and-coming flyweight Niko Soe locked in an armbar and left the Singapore Indoor Stadium roaring in delight.

Haidar tried desperately to fight out of it and he did all the right things, but the Singaporean was able to adjust his position, tighten his grip, and used his sheer strength to force the tap. He got the victory and, quite arguably, the most memorable submission of the evening.

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Dog meat cut from one online China delivery site

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An online food delivery service’s decision to remove restaurants selling dog meat from its platform received mixed reaction from netizens, as the debate over eating dog meat in China continues.

Ele.me recently announced that it had removed from its app and website 294 restaurants that sell a total of 7,733 dishes containing dog meat, citing food safety concerns.

“Currently, there are no quarantine and slaughter standards for dogs in China and the origin of most dog meat in the market is unclear,” the company said.

There is no law or regulation that prohibits people from eating dog meat.

Many netizens supported the decision.

“The dog meat market is chaotic and many dogs sold are stolen pets,” one netizen said.

However, some opposed the decision, like one who said that “if these dog lovers eat meat of other animals, they don’t have the right to stop other people from eating dogs”.

The debate over eating dog meat in China has grown in recent years, especially during the annual Yulin Dog Meat Festival in the Guangxi Zhuang autonomous region.

The event is said to be responsible for the slaughter of thousands of dogs each year.

The Yulin government distanced itself from the festival in 2014, saying that it is businessmen who organise the event to promote their business.

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Tree Planting Day floats up a new idea

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The time-honoured tradition of Tree Planting Day treaded new ground – or rather, water – yesterday, with Prime Minister Lee Hsien Loong planting mangrove tree saplings in the Punggol Reservoir.

He and his fellow MPs for Ang Mo Kio GRC and Sengkang West planted tropical mangrove trees on specially designed floating turfs of soil, the first time trees are being planted here using this method.

The Avicennia alba trees, commonly known as api-api putih, will have roots suspended in the water that help absorb nutrients that algae depend upon, thereby reducing algae and improving water quality in the reservoir.

Lam Pin Min, MP for Sengkang West, told reporters after the event that he had read about an installation of floating trees in Rotterdam, Holland, and decided to try it out here.

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Besides, the constituency is next to Punggol Reservoir that already houses the Sengkang Floating Wetland, he added.

“We’re discussing with (national water agency) PUB to see whether we can locate it near to the floating wetland where people can view it when they walk across the bridge,” he said.

The tree-planting campaign was launched in 1963 by founding prime minister Lee Kuan Yew.

It has become an annual nationwide affair to highlight the importance of greening the city and keeping it clean.

Tree-planting activities have been held in various constituencies across the island this month, including in Sembawang GRC yesterday.

It was attended by Coordinating Minister for Infrastructure and Minister for Transport Khaw Boon Wan.

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More than 1,600 voices in fight against diabetes

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More than 1,600 people have given their ideas on how to fight diabetes as a nation, said Health Minister Gan Kim Yong yesterday.

Their suggestions include making healthy food and drink options more easily available, having diabetes screening at more workplaces and expanding community fitness programmes.

“I am heartened to know that many participants recognised that health is ultimately a personal responsibility, and that managing one’s health is the first step to fight diabetes,” said Mr Gan at the opening of a World Diabetes Day event at Suntec convention centre yesterday.

It marked the launch of a public education campaign to get people living more healthily.

More than 400,000 people in Singapore have diabetes, which can lead to complications such as stroke or blindness. If nothing is done, it is estimated there will be one million residents with diabetes by 2050.

In September, the Ministry of Health (MOH) launched a six- month crowdsourcing exercise to learn how Singaporeans think the ailment can be prevented.

Eight roadshows and dialogues have been held, with more planned in the coming weeks on topics such as eating out healthily.

An online public consultation will also be launched in January.

MOH will study the ideas from these sessions and work on implementing the best ones as part of the diabetes action plan – to be rolled out in stages starting next year.

The crowdsourcing sessions are the brainchild of the Diabetes Prevention and Care Taskforce, headed by Mr Gan and Minister for Education (Schools) Ng Chee Meng.

Mr Gan said the task force is also looking at how to help people who already have diabetes get the best care, and prevent them from developing complications.

“This includes anchoring the care of diabetic patients with their regular family doctor within the community,” he said.

“The family doctor can provide good care for the diabetic patient as well as family members who may be at risk of developing diabetes.”

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Names of potential presidential candidates surface

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Since Prime Minister Lee Hsien Loong announced last week that next year’s presidential election will be reserved for Malay candidates, several names of possible candidates have surfaced.

Community leaders and observers cite two prominent figures from the community: Speaker of Parliament Halimah Yacob and former Cabinet minister Abdullah Tarmugi, who was speaker from 2002 to 2011.

Observers say both tick all the boxes of the eligibility criteria for those from the public sector, having spent at least three years in key public offices.

PM Lee was speaking during the debate in Parliament on changes to the Constitution to ensure minorities are represented in the elected presidency from time to time as the office is a symbol of the nation’s multiracialism.

Singapore has not had a Malay president since first president Yusof Ishak, who died in office in 1970.

Madam Halimah, 62, an MP for Marsiling-Yew Tee GRC, entered politics in 2001, became Minister of State in 2011, and Speaker in 2013.

She is widely seen as a front runner. But when asked if she had given the matter thought, she told The Straits Times: “My paramount consideration is service to Singapore, which I am doing by wholeheartedly focusing on my current responsibilities.”

“Regardless of our position of service, it is more important to stay focused on the same core mission, which is to do our best for Singapore,” she added.

Asked if he would run, Mr Abdullah, part of a nine-man Constitutional Commission that reviewed the Elected Presidency, said he has not given it serious consideration.

But several friends have encouraged him to do so.

“I’d be lying if I say that friends have not been asking me about it. I suppose that is to be expected. If you look at the people who qualify, it is not that big a pool,” he said.

“But when my friends suggest that, I tell them: Hold on, hold on… It is still early days yet. And I got to think of my own preferences, my life, my family, and my privacy. This is not a journey I take myself.”

Observers also see Communications and Information Minister Yaacob Ibrahim and Environment and Water Resources Minister Masagos Zulkifli as possible candidates.

Dr Yaacob said in a Facebook post last Friday: “When the time comes, I hope qualified Malay candidates will step forward to serve all Singaporeans.”

He added: “We must ensure that the best qualified person who reflects the values and ethos of our nation will be elected to the highest office of our land.”

Mr Masagos joined politics in 2006, and became a Cabinet minister last year.

Observers say he may qualify under the “deliberative” track, which allows the Presidential Election Committee to consider candidates who do not meet the criteria, but have comparable experience and ability.

When asked about such a possibility, Mr Masagos said: “I don’t lose sleep over that. Keeping racial harmony in working condition – that’s what I worry about.”

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He builds special wheelchair to help calm side-effects of dementia on his wife

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Elderly man builds special wheelchair so he can take wife, who has dementia, for long walks

He takes his wife, who has dementia, on outings using a wheelchair built for two.

Mr Tan Ban Ho, a 72-year-old retiree, came up with his unique contraption after discovering that going out helps to calm his wife, Madam Loh Yock Yeng, 71.

Two months ago, to make it easier for him to push the wheelchair at his age, he attached an electric unicycle, which he bought for $600, to the rear of the wheelchair.

This enables him to ride the unicycle when pushing his wife.

Armed with technical knowledge from his years as an ITE lecturer teaching electronics, Mr Tan put the contraption together himself.

  • Caring for his dementia-stricken wife

He installed a shade for his wife and a polyvinyl chloride pipe to hold an umbrella over his head.

He also made a metal and wooden ramp to hold the unicycle upright when it is not in use.


The wheelchair has also been fixed with a small shelter for Mr Tan’s wife, in the event that it rains.​ TNP PHOTO: Jonathan Choo

He told The New Paper last Wednesday that Madam Loh had been diagnosed with dementia in 2006.

“At first, I didn’t understand what she meant when she said she wanted to go out, and she would throw tantrums at home,” he said.

“A few months after her diagnosis, when I finally took her out on a wheelchair, we walked on a park connector for about 5km.

“She became very calm and happy, but the skin on my soles tore.

“Earlier this year, I thought of riding an electric unicycle behind the wheelchair so it would be faster and more efficient.”

The couple now go out every morning after breakfast to places such as Marina Barrage, Japanese Garden and VivoCity.

Mr Tan’s innovation and devotion to his wife caught the attention of the Ministry of Health’s Successful Ageing Singapore Facebook page. 

The Facebook post said: “We came across Mr Tan riding his unicycle and pushing his wife on her wheelchair while driving one day.

“This is not something you’ll usually see in Singapore, and we thought it would be interesting to share his story on Facebook.

“Society tends to perceive seniors as more archaic in their methods, but Mr Tan has proven otherwise.

“He has shown us that seniors have the creativity and ingenuity to tackle problems, and he is a good example of how we have so much more to learn from the seniors around us.”

Mr Tan told TNP that Madam Loh used to be active and would go to the residents’ corner in their neighbourhood regularly to exercise and sing karaoke.

One day, when she was cooking vegetables, she kept asking him if she had added salt and Mr Tan suspected the worst.

“When I found out she had dementia, I was devastated and heartbroken. My wife was so healthy and rarely fell sick, so why did this happen to her?” he said.

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Their romance began during their St John Ambulance Brigade co-curricular activities.

“I was from Whampoa Secondary School and she was from Chung Hwa Girls’ High School, and we would meet once a week for the activities.

“We got to know each other after a while and I thought she was a lovely and responsible person,” he said.

They got married in late 1970, and have a son, 43, and a daughter, 40.

The four of them live in a four-room flatin Dover Crescent.

He recalled the early months of his wife’s illness as being very difficult.

“Her dementia caused her to act like a two-year-old child, so I couldn’t comprehend what she was trying to say.

“Sometimes, she would stand next to me at 3am while I’m asleep and I would get a shock. But that’s when I knew that she had soiled herself.

“She can’t control her bowel movements and would smear faeces on the walls with her hands…” he said.

“If I don’t take her out, she gets agitated and would shake doors and throw things.

“She also turns on the taps and gas stove, which was terrifying.”

Once, someone made a police report after she threw a porcelain cup out of the window.

Every day, Mr Tan feeds and bathes his wife and changes the four layers of soiled towels on the bed and wheelchair without fail. When her hair gets too long, he cuts it for her.

Mr Tan said: “The doctor said her dementia is incurable, even with medication. The medical bills were $200 a month, so I stopped giving her the medication in the middle of this year.”

Madam Loh no longer remembers her name and who her children are and even mistakes Mr Tan for her father.

When TNP asked Mr Tan what he would like her to remember most, he said: “I want her to know that I still love her, and I don’t want her to worry so much and go through such hardships any more.

“I’m afraid of what might happen to her if I pass away first, but for now, I’ll continue to push her wheelchair every step of the way.”

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